Accept Mrs Melville's offer, as he doesn't wish to offend her, but suggest she leaves the money to his clinic rather than him personally?
Mrs Melville comes back in seeking further facial surgery, and mentions that she would like to make Mr Yannis a beneficiary in her will.
Mr Yannis is a cosmetic surgeon working in the independent sector. Mrs Melville is a former patient.
Mrs Melville, I don't know what to say. I'm very flattered of course, but I'm not sure whether it would be...
Oh say you'll take it Mr Yannis, please. You changed my life! You made me into a new woman, twice over! And you can hopefully work your magic again... whatever you decide about treatment this time, I just want to show my gratitude. Please say you'll accept, you'll offend me terribly if you don't...
Mr Yannis apologised for offending her but said that guidance from his regulator and professional body meant that he couldn't accept her kind offer, either for himself or for his clinic.
You must not ask for or accept – from patients, colleagues or others – any incentive payments, gifts or hospitality that may affect or be seen to affect the way you propose, provide or prescribe treatments, refer or commission services for patients. You must not offer such incentives to others.
(Good Medical Practice, paragraph 96)